Turning Point-1

Conflict Management

Patience is the key to paradise






There are two ways of dealing with a problem. One is a planned action after due thought and other is spontaneous action driven by emotion i.e. without a thought for possible consequences.

Often we will be confused how to react to a particular situation. At times like these, the unwise allow others to dictate their actions. They think, if surrendered their prestige will suffer, as that only results in more losses. We may not felt insulted, but those around are eager to convince us of our humiliation. “How can he do it to you? You should give it back to him!” So much so that we are forced to stop smiling and start worrying.

In Ramayana, if Kaikeyi had followed her senses and allowed Lord Rama’s taking over to the throne, she would have led a happy and majesty life. Instead she allowed her insecurities to be fed by her maid Manthara. There are many Mantharas around us to exaggerate the situations.

Once we let ourselves to be led by other’s thinking, our lives will be miserable. These same people will also be the first to jump onto the other side and leave us alone.

With an inexpressive planned approach and reasonable thinking, we can move away from the conflict and find ways to resolve the issues.

We may feel insulted or honored, hurt or pleased, happy or sad, as it suits us. We should not react impulsively to every problem. With control over the way we feel and react, we can manage the situation around us with incredible ease.

We are responsible for what we are & whatever we wish ourselves to be. Arrow goes forward only after pulling it to backward. Bullet goes forward only after pressing the trigger backward. Every human being will get happy only after facing the difficulties in their life path. So don’t afraid to face difficulties. They will push you forward.

It’s better to find a way out using the opportunities available. Even one has to accept all the conditions of the opponent; to begin with, it might be realistic to do so, where there are opportunities too. Success can be achieved by availing those opportunities. But most of us entangle in those problems thinking that we cannot move ahead unless hurdles are first removed.

The only intelligent way to react to any situation is to examine it for its positive aspects and make most out of them. What cannot be changed need not be endured, it can be enjoyed too! Nobody can keep a good man down for long. May be something better is waiting for us round the next corner……….Lets Start Looking !!